Happy new year 🎊

Hello everyone and happy new year 🥳. Am thankful that God has granted each and everyone of you reading this an added year to your lives 😊. I pray that this year all your heart desires will be granted.

So..am really sorry for not posting for a while now. I have been having a bit of writers block but I think am ok now so get ready for my posts this year 😏.

So on this post I want to talk about the “cutting off” thing that has been going on lately. Literally everyone is so focused on the mantra of cutting people off. I think we can all testify that on our social media pages for the past few weeks, we have seen people talking about it. You know to me it’s kinda funny 😂😅.

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Most people are cutting others off because they claim that they are bad or fake or don’t just add value to their lives. Am not saying that this is not good, what I mean is that people shouldn’t go around cutting people off with no valid or good enough reason🤷🏽‍♀️.

Influencers and motivational speakers or quotes all go around ranting that you should cut people off if they don’t add value to your life but no one is talking about “how to be a better person and to be of value to some other persons life”. We can’t be vampires and suck energy from others without giving anything in return.

Humans shouldn’t operate in a parasitic relationship but in a mutual one. You can’t keep taking from people and not giving them too. You never know the reason why your so called friends are acting up, it might be because you aren’t giving them the same energy they give you. And let’s face it, it’s pretty exhausting. So they tend to take a step back.Or it might be that they are going through stuff that they can’t talk about. Sometimes you just need to be patient and wait for them to come around.

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You shouldn’t always expect people to come to you, you have to make conscious effort to go to them. This year we should make conscious efforts to be of value to others especially those that put you on a high pedestal in their lives. And trust me, by next year you wouldn’t be shouting am cutting this and that 😂.