It was on a Saturday,my roommate came into the room with a girl of about 12 to 13 years. She was pretty like really pretty. She had this very curly and luscious hair that was also very soft and silk like. She had a beautiful smile that lit up the room. A slender petite body she had and her name was Fatima.
She walked into the room smiling and just sat on my bed with a grin on her face,”my name is Fatima”,she said. I was a bit taken aback by her forwardness. I know very well that I cannot approach someone like that. I was watching a movie on my phone and she laid down with me to watch it too. She placed her feet on my bed,it was quite dirty and I was a bit uncomfortable about that cause I’m kind of a clean freak but I didn’t say anything.
According to what my roommate told me,she found Fatima at the entrance of our school. She was begging people there and the security men tried to take advantage of her. My roommate whose name is Ella is a feminist so seeing the little girl in that situation really ticked her off. She approached them and took the girl away from there and brought her to the room.
She was a very lively girl and so full of life. She didn’t take things to heart and she was so carefree . She had a weird accent. It was a mixture of pigin English and her local tongue and a little of French. She couldn’t speak proper English so she stuck to pigin most of the time of which she was an expert I must say. Of course I, being as inquisitive as ever started a question and answer session. From them, I could gather that she was from Niger and came to Nigeria with her mother and a few others from her village a few years ago . They were searching for a better life, greener pastures you can call it.
- Our conversation went like this; Geraldine : “So how did you get to Nigeria Fatima”,I asked.
- Fatima : “Na so one day like that my mama come tell me say make I pack all my things way I fit carry. As I de so I bin day like six or seven “, she said thoughtfully. “We pack our things way we fit carry comot for house”.
- Geraldine : “so you don’t have a father and siblings ” , I asked.
- Fatima : “ahh I get oo. I get. I get father and brother and sister but we no come with them”, she replied.
- Geraldine : “why didn’t you come with them”,I asked.
- Fatima: “me I no know ooo. Na so I just see am”,she replied. My mama just carry me so. We run run run with people so. We come enter one big lorry. We squeeze squeeze ourselves so. We de like that oo till we come reach Naija.
- Geraldine : “where in Nigeria did you get to first ? ” , I asked.
- Fatima : ” we reach Calabar first first. We stay for Calabar for long like this ehh before we come Uyo”, she replied.
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Fatima speaking in her native tongue
I learnt that we should always look at things from the bright side. No matter how life was horrible to her she was always smiling. Sometimes she couldn’t even afford to eat three square meals per day talk less of two and when that happened she would be very happy. I once asked her if she was comfortable where she lived and she smiled and said,”ahh I no like am oo.But wetin I fit do, at least I get place to sleep some people no get place to sleep oo them they sleep for road. Me I de happy like that oo “.
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The last video I have of her 😭
My roommates and I asked her to come later in the week so that we could contribute money and give her as a fair well gift but she never came to get it. That Sunday was the last time I saw Fatima. But I will always remember her tho . I miss her a lot and I hope one day I get to see her, hopefully in a better condition than I last time I saw her .I will always remember her as my Niger Beauty ❤️
60 Comments
Bryan Of The World
May 30, 2019 at 10:23 am😭😭😭😭I miss her already
geraldineakpabio
May 30, 2019 at 10:39 amLol 😂😅
artoftruezeal
May 30, 2019 at 10:30 amSadly, we have some of them in front of my School Gate. They are so friendly but i have never spoken to them. I always want to ask them these questions everytime i get to see them but they are always busy. As independent and introvertive I am in school, I just love their smiles and happiness.
geraldineakpabio
May 30, 2019 at 10:40 amYes that’s what really gets it me. The ability they have to smile no matter what life throws at them.❤️
artoftruezeal
May 30, 2019 at 10:34 amReblogged this on Artoftruezeal and commented:
I’ve thought thoroughly about this, One day I almost walked up to them but I was scared of being casted most especially since I was alone. I quickly paved away. I always wonder why their parents will let them out in a circumstance like that.
geraldineakpabio
May 30, 2019 at 10:41 amI really wonder too .. but they basically live on what they gather from begging 🥺
Freeborn Young
May 30, 2019 at 10:38 amThis is truly heartbreaking, emotional and indeed fulfilling to Read. I’ve seen Fatima a couple of times in school, but never really paid attention to her situation. God bless you and your Room mates for being Gracious unto her, God bless you even more for taking out time to put these blessed memories and good deeds into writing for the world to know. 💓🙏
geraldineakpabio
May 30, 2019 at 10:42 amWow Freeborn this is so nice 😭❤️
Amen
Sensunny Udosen
May 30, 2019 at 10:44 amHmmmm. 🤧😥😪
geraldineakpabio
May 30, 2019 at 11:00 am❤️
tusamcode
May 30, 2019 at 11:00 amThis blog has really made me see the importance of being close to people and asking questions …. I’ve come across that particular girl even before starting the university and each time I see her I feel she shouldn’t even get close to me, but one day I decided to give pitty a chance buy talking to her and then helping her with the small change I had.
In the process of talking to her, I realised the state she was and I felt so bad for all the times she came around to ask for help and I didn’t even think twice …
I believe in the power of communication. As Paul watlawick said “man cannot not communicate” , which means we can’t do without communicating.
Nice one Geraldine
Thumbs up👍
You’ve changed a soul today 🌻
#usunguwem_usoro
geraldineakpabio
May 30, 2019 at 11:02 amThank u so much ❤️
peenielah
May 30, 2019 at 11:08 amI’ve seen Fatima before and a lot of them by the gate..someone needs to do something about it..maybe reach out to the government.. To Provide shelter and other basic amenities they need
geraldineakpabio
May 30, 2019 at 11:14 amThat’s the thing ,the government doesn’t care. If they can’t take care of their citizens properly is it now immigrants 🤷🏽♀️
Faithful
May 30, 2019 at 5:11 pmWow this is an awesome piece👌. Sincerely speaking I have been touched😭. I feel more people should get to read this☺….. Keep the fire 🔥burning. God bless.
geraldineakpabio
May 30, 2019 at 5:13 pmThank you so much
A lot of people can read this is you repost 😊❤️🙏🏻
hallowedphoenix
May 30, 2019 at 11:11 amOMG😥😥😪😪😪
Wao!!!
geraldineakpabio
May 30, 2019 at 11:15 am🥺
Sabrina
May 30, 2019 at 11:38 amWow such a nice write up. I couldn’t expect you to do any less, Mum has instilled in us the habit of giving and showing love to people, no matter how little we have. That is the greatest lesson we should keep. God would bless you all for helping her and He would also send helpers of your destiny.
geraldineakpabio
May 30, 2019 at 2:16 pmAmen ❤️
Ojuka
May 30, 2019 at 12:31 pmI was touched 😣😣 I just hope she’s okay and with her family it was a nice thing u guys did.. U will be rewarded one day❤️❤️
geraldineakpabio
May 30, 2019 at 2:17 pmAmen ❤️
aiiriraen
May 30, 2019 at 12:39 pmIts a bit sad how most of us didn’t care or notice her absence till now. I hope she finds a way out of the shit life’s got piled up on her,she’s too much of a beautiful soul
geraldineakpabio
May 30, 2019 at 2:17 pmI pray so for her too 🌈
jamesudotong
May 30, 2019 at 2:05 pmWow. This is so touching. Keep up the good work. if every Nigerian could be like this 😪
geraldineakpabio
May 30, 2019 at 2:18 pmThank u so much ❤️
I hope most of us could be like this too
Joseph Okoye
May 30, 2019 at 3:01 pmVery nice one Gera😩
You’re becoming a master at this too😎😎
Keep on doing good things at the best way possible🤗🤗
geraldineakpabio
May 30, 2019 at 4:49 pmThank u so much 🤗
Nnamseh Gabriel Michael
May 30, 2019 at 4:09 pmwow this is really touching ,I myself I wished I met her.
Although the same nice work.
geraldineakpabio
May 30, 2019 at 4:49 pm😊😊😊
EMMANUEL
May 30, 2019 at 5:16 pmIt pays to help
Nice write up
geraldineakpabio
May 30, 2019 at 9:00 pmThank u so much 🤗
acekeed
May 30, 2019 at 9:01 pmSo from now on I’ll be giving money to any of them that comes across me. I feel guilty on how I chase em away 😩.
But the language is funny btw. 😂😂💔
geraldineakpabio
May 31, 2019 at 3:23 amIkr her language is so funny 😂
It’s good that you have a change of heart ❤️
Abasiakan Mbat
May 30, 2019 at 9:35 pmwhat a wonderful write up!.
you are really good.
geraldineakpabio
May 31, 2019 at 3:24 amThank you so much 🥰
Elly
May 31, 2019 at 6:02 pmMet her a month ago and she was the sweetest thing ever and shy and first. But so sad she doesn’t have an education. I pray good fortune finds her and turns her life around for the better. Thanks for blogging about this.
geraldineakpabio
May 31, 2019 at 11:50 pmThank you so much ☺️
I pray for good fortune to come her way too..Amen ❤️
geraldineakpabio
May 31, 2019 at 11:51 pmThank you so much ☺️
I pray for good fortune to come her way..Amen ❤️
Godwin
May 31, 2019 at 6:09 pmNah Nah Nah
I’m a hard guy
I’m not allowed to cry 😥😫
geraldineakpabio
May 31, 2019 at 11:51 pm😂😂😂
Rejoice Omang
May 31, 2019 at 9:07 pmHmm this is so touching 😭😭, am glad you people assisted her because the bible says give and it shall be given unto you . May the God we serve reward all of you abundantly🙏🙏🙏.God bless you my beautiful twin.
geraldineakpabio
May 31, 2019 at 11:52 pmAmen ☺️
Miracle
June 1, 2019 at 10:45 amYou have such a good heart ❤️
geraldineakpabio
June 1, 2019 at 12:51 pmI try ❤️
Nkay
June 2, 2019 at 3:20 amSo that’s what happened to her,I was always wondering. This was such a beautiful write up Geraldine❤
geraldineakpabio
June 2, 2019 at 12:28 pmThank you 🤗
Somto
June 2, 2019 at 1:32 pmWow this was quite emotional I must say.But the thing is that their are people out there who are willing to help but you just don’t know who is true amongst them. Anyways I’m glad you were able to make the few days you spent with her a memorable one. May God bless you
geraldineakpabio
June 2, 2019 at 7:04 pmIt’s true that there are people willing to help most of them we can only pray that they themselves have a change of heart to be honest in order to meet their destiny helpers…
Daniella Ntuen
June 2, 2019 at 3:25 pmWow this post has really put a lot in perspective for me. See the little things we take for granted are the things others wish they had just for a day. Love how you & your roommates related with Fatima. In the end, we’re all just humans.. no class, no education, no wealth can change that simple fact!
geraldineakpabio
June 2, 2019 at 7:05 pm❤️❤️❤️
Anthony Ekpe
June 3, 2019 at 5:01 amIts interesting to get an insight into the mind of one of the people we see on the streets, and usually dismiss easily as beggars. Most times with the thought that they should find something gainful to employ themselves with. It appears there is usually a story behind their travails. I wish your friend the very best though. God can change anyone’s destiny. I pray her destiny will be changed for good.
geraldineakpabio
June 3, 2019 at 8:08 amAmen 🙏🏻
Uwakmfon Inyang
June 14, 2019 at 11:25 amThis is a very sweet write up,Geraldine. I’m proud of what you and your roomates did for her. I hope for a time when many people like this would be able to get more out of life💜
geraldineakpabio
June 14, 2019 at 12:25 pmI hope so too ❤️
Uwakmfon Inyang
June 14, 2019 at 11:37 amThis is very sweeet❤
I’m happy with what you and your friends did for her Geraldine☺. Communicating with her is absolutely beautiful and supporting her with money too
I hope people like her would start to get a lot more out of life
geraldineakpabio
June 14, 2019 at 12:25 pmI hope so too 😊
Helena Omang
June 14, 2019 at 5:01 pmThis is a beautiful write up dear. It’s good many times to associate with those who are lower than us. You really get to appreciate what they are passing through and yet they are smiling. This helps to strengthen us in our own times of trials.
Goodnews
June 21, 2019 at 4:38 pmThis is so nice😍
I pray her wishes in life come to pass💖
geraldineakpabio
June 25, 2019 at 5:27 amAmen ❤️